it feels both insane to say this and insane i’ve waited this long to say it - You Have a New Memory is available for pre-order!!! honestly the links have been live for like 10 days; i had all these grandiose delusions of the humble-yet-staggering, gracious-yet-electrifying way i would share this information, and then i spiraled with self-promotion anxiety, and i didn’t write anything, even though i also wanted to share some tiktoks i liked.
the book is out 07/22/25! the cover is beautiful! it’s funny, a few essays from this newsletter worked their way into the proposal, but by the time we reached the manuscript phase they’d been entirely decimated, reconstructed, augmented; while there are echoes of my longer-form substack writing, this book could only ever be a book. the material is long and deep and different, and i am really, really excited to share it.
pre-orders really help authors out, and you also get the book hand-delivered to your door right on the release date, which is fun. so despite feeling like this when i suggest you pre-order
here are some links, should you want to do so: bookshop and barnes and noble
thank you for your support! i am excited to have a little more time to write newsletters :) also - would you like to know more about the writing process/publishing process/anything like that? if that feels exciting i can definitely talk about it, but i don’t want to overwhelm or pretend i’m an expert.
okay yes onto the links! here are some things from the internet:
maybe it’s because i’m coming off a linear, goal-oriented project, but i’ve kind of enjoyed just wandering aimlessly but pleasantly around the internet—becoming a digital flaneuse, which requires a little more effort than doomscrolling but more purpose, too. are.na is especially good for this. here’s a collection you could start with, and then you just click around, as you would on wikipedia, from object to object and collection to collection with no end goal. i feel less nonspecific dread when i do this than when i go on instagram
i’m savoring the experience of occasionally returning to the open tab of this 1997 amy hempel interview in BOMB - hempel’s reasons to live is a sparse, exquisite little short story collection, and hempel is so matter-of-fact and chill about writing—not in a blasé way, but in a like craft way. her voice is very grounding to me
thanks to helen rosner’s food-themed gift guide, i have this perverse idea that i’m going to gift everyone i know homemade vanilla sugar in vintage glass jars. we’ll see how that goes!
in my jar hunt i found this vick’s container and i’m loling at the thought of gifting someone food in it… it’s so sinister? but alsoooo kind of cute?
okay but i did indulge in marissa zappas’ perfume advent calendar, it hasn’t arrived yet (and also bad luck to open before december, like opening an umbrella indoors, i assume)—but her perfumes are otherworldly, delicate and animal all at once. can’t wait
here’s a tiktok about how to spot real antique art at goodwill
it is time to dissociate with the falconcam
until next time xoxox
aiden